At the end of my workday, I always watch an episode of FRIENDS or a vlog on YouTube. It’s become a ritual for years I have lived alone, starting from my low paydays in Hyderabad to a stable career now in Bangalore. I never regret my decisions in life or pity myself for that matter. I have built myself stronger by dining alone at office canteens, having coffee dates alone, a walk to the bookstore, or even shopping solo. Though on days when I fall sick with a high fever and parched throat, I miss a comforting palm on my forehead. The last couple of days, I suffered from viral and more than the viral fever my loneliness made me weaker.
How do you live life calmly when you are clueless about the person who would be sleeping beside you for the rest of your life? How do you prepare yourself for the life after this pandemic, planning for holidays with an unknown face? I have looked around for comfort in friends who thought I was hitting on them. I have looked around for solace in acquaintances who thought I was a transit location. I have looked inside my soul to find a spark to love again, I failed every time I gathered courage in the word ‘love.’
People often tell me that I have raised my standards by reading novels. I question often, “Shall I stop reading about the perfect love stories in an imperfect novel?” For the generation of Tinder, I might sound like a sonnet of the 60s. I forgot how to fall in love, I want to fall in love once again and this time, maybe Forever. When I was down with fever, I always thought, “What if I died alone in an apartment?” My soul kept screaming that, “You would die after hearing those magical words, never lose hope.” I want to trust my heart even though it was sedated that night. I want to be someone’s forever in this world full of “Maybe.” Love as magical as it sounds, can be my cause of loneliness. Love as joyful as it sounds, might break my strength. Maybe someday, someone would save my drowning soul. Maybe I get to hear my share of “I love you.” At the end of my story, there will always be a “Maybe.”